Friday, February 21, 2020

Child Getting Used to New Identity

This is based on a true incident.


While being admitted to Grade One class, parents were told by the Class teacher that the child would be addressed henceforth by her second name instead of her commonly used name.

The parents were shocked and the hapless child protested vehemently but no avail.

The reason for this decision was based on having another child with the same name already in the class registry.

Now the child is registered under her second name which has never been used in any open conversations hitherto, except for documentation purposes only.

The parents are from not so affluent backgrounds and with limited education, hence despite their misgivings had to accept the Class teacher’s decision finally.

No doubt, the child would get used being called another name over the years and without any adverse psychological issues later due to this trauma.

There are a few questions still plague me, after hearing the incident from them recently and the purpose of posting this is to seek answers than ridicule or look down on anyone.

These are the questions and I am sure someone with enough knowledge and expertise will enlighten me and many other like minded readers.
  • Has the Class teacher got the authority to change someone’s commonly used name for such a flimsy reason?
  • What if the child in question had no second name?
  • What sort of psychological issues child would have to encounter and overcome getting used to a totally new identity?
  • What sort of action parents can take to correct the situation than giving into the Class teacher’s whims?

Thursday, February 20, 2020

Three Wheeler Mafia is a menace to the Society


There are some videos now being shared on social media sites where Three Wheeler hooligans harass and man handle some other legitimate taxi service providers.

One such guy who had been harassed and possibly even attacked have now gone to the area reserved for those who want to express their grievances peacefully and staging a one man protest to get the authorities attention to a very common problem faced by many.

The Three Wheeler Mafia is a menace to the society and it should be eradicated soon.

But the question is will the authorities do anything to correct the situation.

The plain answer is No.

They will not.

The reason is that that is their bedrock of voters.

Not only those who are riding on them but many others who have the same mentality of Three Wheel riders supporting politicians.

Therefore in the very likelihood that they will not be disciplined.

In a such a scenario what the general public who are concerned about the deteriorating law and order situation in the country can do now?
  • Use public transport as much as possible,
  • If in a rare occasion, one has to ride on it, avoid riding on ones that are without proper Meter,
  • Report if any abuse.
It will get little time to get the traction of our collective efforts but it will eventually come.

But if we let it go as it is, the situation is going to deteriorate more and then we have to obey their rules than anything else.

If the boycott or effective selection process is being adopted by many,  soon they will start getting the pressure on them too.

When Debt Collectors started calling on them only they will realize.

Then they will have two choices.

Either adopt according to the Market requirements or perish.

As the general public we should be more active too.

A few things that we can do now to change the Mafia grip.
  • Use business apps for all our rides,
  • Chose Metered Taxis over unmetered ones,
  • Demand to have Owner & the driver’s details as well as the current registration is clearly displayed in the passenger cabin, in case if a need arise to report some issue.
The changes are hard to come by, only if we keep our silence.

Do not be afraid of demanding your rights always.

Tuesday, February 04, 2020

හොදට තිබුණ රටක්


ස්තිර තැන්පතු සදහා ගෙවන පොලී අනුපාතිකය පහලට.

වරිපනම් ගාස්තු 240% කින් ඉහලට.

ජල සහ විදුලි බල ගාස්තු සංශෝදන අත ලගම.

පැට්‍රෝල් ඩීසල් මිල ලගදීම ඉහලට.

පොල් ගෙඩියක් රුපියල් 80 යි.

හාල් කිලෝ එකක් රුපියල් 100 යි.

එළවලු රත්තරන් වගේ.

දැන් මිනිස්සු බැංකු කඩනවා වෙනුවට එළවලු කඩ කඩන්නේ.

ලගදීම රණ විරුවොයි, රට විරුවොයි විතරක් නෙමේ, මුලු විශ්‍රාමිකයන්ම හිගමන් යදින්නට පාරට වැටෙන කාලේ අත ලග.

මදැයි සම හරක් ටිකක් රටට කරපු වින්නැහිය.

හොදට තිබුණ රටක්.

තණ කොලයි, පුන්නක්කු වල විතරයි මිල වැඩි නොවුනේ.